Sexual addiction, sexual intercourse with another person

Sexual addiction

Sexual addiction Hypersexuality refers to an increased sexual drive for sexual activities, whether it involves masturbation, sexual intercourse with another person, or any other sexual behavior. Over time, hypersexuality can lead to sexual addiction. Elevated sexual desire in men is called satyriasis, and in women, it’s called nymphomania. While in today’s conditions, some may find this appealing because people often complain about reduced sexual desire…

Integrated Person, you try all the ways to protect

Integrated Person

You are born and you develop as a pupa. You try all the ways to protect the pupa and survive the repressions of society. It is only until the late teens one experiences the inadequacy of the pupa he is living in. Again, due to factors such as social co-existence and need for making earning, we sink into the same pupa. We make slight modifications…

The Awakening, self-realization and understanding

The Awakening

Human beings have the innate potential to know themselves and reach a higher state of consciousness. What is so great about devoting time for self-realisation and understanding? It brings you closer to the nascent state of your mind, the Soul. Then, you come closer to your purpose in the world.  You can live till death without understanding who you are, in a semi-sleep state. Get…

Tantric Sex, Enhancement of love rather than a sexual

Tantric Sex

Tantric sex Tantric sex is a higher form of sexual act where the focus is on enhancement of love rather than  a sexual release. Thus, the focus moves from the conventional act of copulation to the complex act of lovemaking. In other words, the focus moves away from genital-centred sexual pleasure to love-centred act of affection. In tantric sex, genitals become the sources of higher…

Introduction to Tantra

Introduction to Tantra

Introduction to Tantra   Sexual activity should happen in total harmony. It is the ultimate union of souls, and that will happen when partners conserve their sexual energies without exploiting those energies. Good lovemaking emerges from sexual discipline. If energies are exploited for some time, partners lose interest in each other and gradually their ability to love decreases. We are bound to seek for wisdom…

Overthinking, Psychotherapist in Trivandrum

The retarded thought

The biggest mistake we make while growing up is to enslave ourselves to an ideology and allow it to control our actions. This flaw or error plays out in many contexts.   Psychologically, in letting the ideology or thought take control, we move ourselves away from the moment of reality – and our original felt response. The expressed, ideologically-bound thought alienates us from our natural…

Multi-sensory learning

Multi-sensory learning refers to using more than one sensory modalities for learning. The sensory modalities at play during learning are auditory, visual and sensory-motor. Sensory motor can be further divided into fine-motor and gross motor. Many forms of instruction use more than one modalities. Why Multi-sensory instruction is important? Imagine memory as a book shelf. Are you going to find a book quickly if you…

Can therapy answer my spiritual quest?

Human being has the innate potential for the super-natural. So, every therapy is a search for the truth. The truth about you lies in your unconscious, that you must know and live upto. Every human activity is towards perfection of his self(the image of his self), that he identifies as his being. Mind is a machine that shows alternating sides of life all the time,…

Distress: The product of ambivalence of mind

Ambivalence points to bipolarity, which causes a thought movement between contradictory states (i.e love and hate, peace and violence, happiness and sorrow, good and evil etc.). These extremes affections, act like two ends of a see-saw, unable to balance the state of affections and keep moving from one state to another, hence the distress. It is a common experience that if the mind settles in…

Reflective Emotional Therapy: Unraveling the secrets of your Self

The simplest statement to define Reflective Emotional Therapy(RET) is “we feel ourselves by feeling for others”. We build self concept based on reflection from numerous emotional relationship that we experience throughout our life. You might become disappointed if a relationship breaks before fulfillment. This disappointment can lead to serious ego conflict. The ego splits into two parts. One part forms the ego-ideal and the other…